Hints and Tips

 

After you to lovebirds return from your honeymoon, your marriage officially starts and with that come a few unexpected changes. It’s not to say that the honeymoon phase is over, but you’ll have to get some things situated in order to have your marriage start off on the right foot ...

 

Here's a few hints and tips:

 

1.  Remember that you have a spouse now and your decision making process should be discussed first with your husband or wife before making a move ...
2.   Bills, who's going to pay what and why? This is the root of disagreements in today's marriages. Thus, sit down with your wife or husband and carefully discuss this topic in a respectful tone ...

The end results will benefit the marriage; because it displays organization, responsibility and it's another form of true love ...

 

God Bless Your Marriage,

Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

It's the Root

Marriage is a lifetime agreement, where a couple willingly shares every aspect of their life's with each other. Now, the infrastructure of this blissful union is based upon this ...

Matthew 19:5(NLV) - It says, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and his mother and will live with his wife. The two will become one.

This doesn't necessarily mean that both of you lose individuality, in other words, 2 cooks are better than one in the kitchen because both of you can add your own twist to the disk ... #Hehehe, Besides, more ideas are shared, opinion are voiced, lessons are learned and your marriage becomes stronger ... #Sweet,

 

God Bless Your Marriage,

Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Swept Under the Rug

Pretending that everything in your marriage is running smoothly when it really isn't only blocks or prolongs true healing, either personal or in the relationship ...

Possibly, you were raised to dust things under the rug, because that's all your mother and father did. Now, we're going to say this in a respectful fashion, following in your parents footsteps hasn't seem to help your marriage! Therefore, if you think that someday things will change by themselves, your only ignoring the truth ... Per contra, if you don't break that painful cycle it will haunt you for the rest of your life and you'll eave that inheritance to your kids, too. Instead, why don't you and your husband or wife implant in your family's heart this ...

James 1:19 (NCV) - My dear brothers and sisters, always be willing to listen and slow to speak. Do not become angry easily,

Marriages and families should flourish, because their both gifts from God. Can someone say ... #Amen,

God Bless Your Marriage,

Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

An Important Attribute

A loving and flourishing marriage is the greatest gift any couple(parents) can give to their children ... It's an important attribute in the field of parenting; because it creates: security, stability and self confidence in your daughter or son ...

 

God Bless Your Marriage,

Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

An Effusing Sense

When a couple is truly in sync with each other, they tend to finish each others sentences ... #Sweet, Maybe it's because they take the time to truly listen to their spouse and not talk over them ... By listening to what your wife or husband is saying with your heart, instead of only your ears, both of you can over come any obstacle ...

Saturday morning and its effusing of a sense of endless love ... Can you feel it?

 

God Bless Your Marriage,

Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Morning LoveBirds:

Sharing a loving gesture such as a kiss, huge or a kind word before your wife or husband goes off to work or school, is just the launching pad to a harmonious day ... Try it, and you'll see ... One more thing, have a super Saturday ...

 

God Bless Your Marriage,

Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Happy Trails

When several paths are in front of both of you and your wondering what to do? Don't waste anytime by arguing about who's decision is right or wrong, instead why don't you immediately grab each others hand and seek the Lord as fast as you can? By doing so, God will show you what to do and then the two of you can happily go off into the sunset ...

Here's a thought that can help you along the way ...

Proverbs 3:5-6 (NLT)
5. Trust in the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. 6. Seek his will in all you do, and he will show you which path to take.

#HappyTrails,

 

God Bless Your Marriage,

Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved