Wednesday, July 30, 2014

Hints and Tips


After you to lovebirds return from your honeymoon, your marriage officially starts and with that come a few unexpected changes. It’s not to say that the honeymoon phase is over, but you’ll have to get some things situated in order to have your marriage start off on the right foot ...
 
Here's a few hints and tips:
 
  1.  Remember that you have a spouse now and your decision making process should be discussed first with your husband or wife before making a move ...
  2.   Bills, who's going to pay what and why? This is the root of disagreements in today's marriages. Thus, sit down with your wife or husband and carefully discuss this topic in a respectful tone ...
The end results will benefit the marriage; because it displays organization, responsibility and it's another form of true love ...
 
God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Tuesday, July 22, 2014

It's the Root

Marriage is a lifetime agreement, where a couple willingly shares every aspect of their life's with each other. Now, the infrastructure of this blissful union is based upon this ...

Matthew 19:5(NLV) - It says, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and his mother and will live with his wife. The two will become one.

This doesn't necessarily mean that both of you lose individuality, in other words, 2 cooks are better than one in the kitchen because both of you can add your own twist to the disk ... #Hehehe, Besides, more ideas are shared, opinion are voiced, lessons are learned and your marriage becomes stronger ... #Sweet,

 
God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Swept Under the Rug

Pretending that everything in your marriage is running smoothly when it really isn't only blocks or prolongs true healing, either personal or in the relationship ...

Possibly, you were raised to dust things under the rug, because that's all your mother and father did. Now, we're going to say this in a respectful fashion, following in your parents footsteps hasn't seem to help your marriage! Therefore, if you think that someday things will change by themselves, your only ignoring the truth ... Per contra, if you don't break that painful cycle it will haunt you for the rest of your life and you'll eave that inheritance to your kids, too. Instead, why don't you and your husband or wife implant in your family's heart this ...

James 1:19 (NCV) - My dear brothers and sisters, always be willing to listen and slow to speak. Do not become angry easily,

Marriages and families should flourish, because their both gifts from God. Can someone say ... #Amen,

God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Sunday, July 20, 2014

An Important Attribute

A loving and flourishing marriage is the greatest gift any couple(parents) can give to their children ... It's an important attribute in the field of parenting; because it creates: security, stability and self confidence in your daughter or son ...
 
God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Saturday, July 19, 2014

An Effusing Sense

When a couple is truly in sync with each other, they tend to finish each others sentences ... #Sweet, Maybe it's because they take the time to truly listen to their spouse and not talk over them ... By listening to what your wife or husband is saying with your heart, instead of only your ears, both of you can over come any obstacle ...

Saturday morning and its effusing of a sense of endless love ... Can you feel it?
 
God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Friday, July 18, 2014

Morning LoveBirds:

Sharing a loving gesture such as a kiss, huge or a kind word before your wife or husband goes off to work or school, is just the launching pad to a harmonious day ... Try it, and you'll see ... One more thing, have a super Saturday ...
 
God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Wednesday, July 16, 2014

Happy Trails

When several paths are in front of both of you and your wondering what to do? Don't waste anytime by arguing about who's decision is right or wrong, instead why don't you immediately grab each others hand and seek the Lord as fast as you can? By doing so, God will show you what to do and then the two of you can happily go off into the sunset ...

Here's a thought that can help you along the way ...

Proverbs 3:5-6 (NLT)
5. Trust in the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. 6. Seek his will in all you do, and he will show you which path to take.


#HappyTrails,
 
God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Monday, July 14, 2014

Good Morning LoveBirds

Marriage is a metaphor of a roller coaster ride ... Contemplate this? The couple experiences it's ups and downs and sometimes the journey takes a quick and unexpected turn; however the best part about this roller coaster ride we call "Marriage" is that the same person you start out with, during the bumps and detours is the same person that: comforts you during those scary turns, holds your hand tight and with love when your afraid and gets off with you, too ...
 
God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Sunday, July 13, 2014

"Bonjour"

 
On this Sunday morning you two may already have plans for later on in the day. But let's evaluate the
pro's and con's of where your going? Are you ready? Ready or not, let's assay the following:
  1.   Why are you going?
  2.   Are you doing it to please your spouse or other people?
  3.   Do you feel comfortable at that particular place?
  4.  Will you attending that location or event benefit your marriage?
We're asking you the above questions because we k...now a place that will refresh your mind, calm your heart and pave the way to a better day. It's called the House of the Lord ...

Aforetime what your about to say to your soul-mate regarding today's agenda. Or in other words, review this bible verse ...

Proverbs 18:21 (HCSB) - Life and death are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruit.

On that note, before you say NO, think about how your relationship with your spouse would get better, spirits will be uplifted and the Glory of God will blossom all over your house ... #HaLLeLuJaH,
 
God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Saturday, July 12, 2014

Give hear to this?

When you put people or things before your marriage, you have an excellent chance of becoming one more statistic on the divorce latter ... It sounds harsh, but take this analogy to heart ...

If a flower, plant or grass isn't watered on a daily bases, eventually they will wither away. Therefore, if your not giving your spouse attention, such as: complimenting them in a loving fashion, comforting them during moments of hardship and applauding their victorie...s, too. For the bible reminds it's readers this ...

Mark 10:8 (NCV) - And the two will become one body. So there are not two, but one.

Indeed, if you and your husband or wife, we're once 2 separate hearts; but after both of you said "I Do" to each other, then your 2 hearts are joined into one ... Thereupon, sow with your wife or husband love and respect so you can reap in the future the same ...  #EnjoyYourMarriage,
 
God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Friday, July 11, 2014

Dive In

What's on tonight's agenda? We don't mean to pry; but after a long, busy and even stressful week, you and your spouse might need to reconnect as a couple, and ignite that loving, sweet and endless fire by visiting romance land ... 

Don't get offended, but sometimes a husband & wife can lose themselves in raising the kids, work, household duties or other obligations, too ... For instance, why don't you set aside one day in the week so that both of you can catch up on some playful chatter, going out to dinner or bring a movie home so both of you can nibble on some popcorn, while  reminiscing about the first time you 2 set eyes on each other and kissed. This way both of you can continue to disc over new ways to grow as a wife & husband, while happily ingesting this ... 
 
Psalm 37:4 (NKJV) - Delight yourself also in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.

Enjoy your date night ...

God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Thursday, July 10, 2014

Jesus, take the Wheel

When several paths are in front of you and your uncertain of which one to embrace, take your spouse's hand, seek the Lord's presence together in prayer, study his word(the Bible) and then you 2 will eventually see what our Heavenly Father had intended for you ... Or in other words this ...

Psalm 119:105 (NLV) - Your Word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path. 

 Now, breath, relax and enjoy in your marriage ...
 
God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Relax, then Talk!

Husbands and wife's give thought to this before, during and after you sit down with your spouse in order to address a particular issue or incident ...

Proverbs 18:7 (NLV) - The mouth of a fool is what destroys him, and his lips are a trap to his soul.

Because what comes our of your mouth can be a source of blessing or curse in the relationship ... #Something2Ponder,
 
God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Thursday, July 3, 2014

Here's a Thought:

The way to ensure your husband or wife pulls their weight in the marital duties, try to be specific about what you want ... For instance, when it comes to kid cleanup, dinner prep or laundry loading, why don't you just let them do it their way?

Don't you know if you stand over him/her, servicing their every more, they can get upset and just drop everything? Therefore, try to be more patient and work together like a team ... Then, your house can continue to feel like a small heaven on earth ... Remember, the bible offers this?

Proverbs 27:17(NCV) - As iron sharpens iron, so people can improve each other.

Lord, please continue to bless all those loving couples?
 
God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Tuesday, July 1, 2014

NO, Civil Wars

When your upset with your wife or husband, try not to discuss important issues ... Because a simple conversation can turn into a civil war within minutes  ... Instead, wait a few minutes, so that you can address each other it will be with love and respect ... For this is what the bible says regarding this subject ...
 
Proverbs 15:1(NIV) - A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.
#‎JustASuggestion‬,
 
God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved