Don't you know if you stand over him/her, servicing their every more, they can get upset and just drop everything? Therefore, try to be more patient and work together like a team ... Then, your house can continue to feel like a small heaven on earth ... Remember, the bible offers this?
Proverbs 27:17(NCV) - As iron sharpens iron, so people can improve each other.
Lord, please continue to bless all those loving couples?