Tuesday, December 30, 2014

Overcoming, Unpleasant Hiccups

Loving someone according to their looks, the material items they possess or because your enticed  with their financial status, really isn't a solid foundation or reason to say "I Do". On account of, things can change within a blink of an eye (Mmm), then what will you do?

How about this, why don't you two truly get to know each other, share your pro's and con's about life and ease the word divorce as a substitute in case things don't work out. By doing so, you'll be able to create a great support system and grabbing your bags when things get tough, won't be an option. On the contrary, you two will take your relationship to a higher level and here's a bonus prize, when your future or present soul-mate sings you a love song (hypothetically speaking), no matter how far or near you are, you'll still be able to hear it, with a loving heart ...

Think about this, before you say "I Do" and if your already marriage, pray your way through those unpleasant hiccups in life ...
 
God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Don't Misinterpret

Just wanted to share a healthy marital tip ...

Ephesians 5:21 (ESV) - Submitting to one another out of reverence for Christ.

Now, lets not rush through this bible verse; because perhaps you might misinterpret what the Apostle Paul is saying. Most people stereotype this verse as if Paul the Apostle is referring to one spouse (the husband) being more superior to the other; but that isn't the goal of this verse ...

The word submitting is defined as to yield oneself to the power or authority of another: In other words, sharing in making the decisions; because no one has carte blanche (full discretionary power) when it refers to purchasing something new, maxing out the credit cards or relinquishing from their present employment because they don't like to work (it happens), is similar to what the Apostle Paul is hinting at ...

A couple, whether their dating, engaged or happily married should constantly communicate with their spouse before making any decision that may effect both of them, for the rest of their life's. On that note, the manner in which you love, serve and respect your wife or husband, is an interpretation of how you: see, obey and eventually serve the Lord ...

God Bless every marriage, far and near ... #Amen,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Saturday, December 13, 2014

A Couple's Manual

Our definition on marriage:

M - Memorable hugs, kisses and discussions ...
A - Able to overcome anything together ...
R - Respectful towards each other ...
R - Reliable when needed the most ...
I - Ignited, in the love department ...
A - Alert to each others feeling ...
G - Giving, in every aspect of the word ... 
E - Eager to forgive the unforgiveable ...
 
God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Tuesday, December 9, 2014

Use, Attentive Gestures


Fight for your marriage, but not with your fist or any heavy object. But instead, by using those kind words that flow from your heart,  along with an attentive  gestures, such as leaving love note by the coffee pot, bringing home a  box of  sweet candy and especially don't forget to bend your knees (pray) for your spouse on a daily bases. This way the lines of communication NEVER get disconnected ...
 
Colossians 3:14 (HCSB) - Above all, put on love—the perfect bond of unity.
 
While all of the above is going on, remember this ...
 
Proverbs 4:23 (NLV) -  Keep your heart pure for out of it are the important things of life.
 
 
God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved