Tuesday, December 30, 2014

Overcoming, Unpleasant Hiccups

Loving someone according to their looks, the material items they possess or because your enticed  with their financial status, really isn't a solid foundation or reason to say "I Do". On account of, things can change within a blink of an eye (Mmm), then what will you do?

How about this, why don't you two truly get to know each other, share your pro's and con's about life and ease the word divorce as a substitute in case things don't work out. By doing so, you'll be able to create a great support system and grabbing your bags when things get tough, won't be an option. On the contrary, you two will take your relationship to a higher level and here's a bonus prize, when your future or present soul-mate sings you a love song (hypothetically speaking), no matter how far or near you are, you'll still be able to hear it, with a loving heart ...

Think about this, before you say "I Do" and if your already marriage, pray your way through those unpleasant hiccups in life ...
 
God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Don't Misinterpret

Just wanted to share a healthy marital tip ...

Ephesians 5:21 (ESV) - Submitting to one another out of reverence for Christ.

Now, lets not rush through this bible verse; because perhaps you might misinterpret what the Apostle Paul is saying. Most people stereotype this verse as if Paul the Apostle is referring to one spouse (the husband) being more superior to the other; but that isn't the goal of this verse ...

The word submitting is defined as to yield oneself to the power or authority of another: In other words, sharing in making the decisions; because no one has carte blanche (full discretionary power) when it refers to purchasing something new, maxing out the credit cards or relinquishing from their present employment because they don't like to work (it happens), is similar to what the Apostle Paul is hinting at ...

A couple, whether their dating, engaged or happily married should constantly communicate with their spouse before making any decision that may effect both of them, for the rest of their life's. On that note, the manner in which you love, serve and respect your wife or husband, is an interpretation of how you: see, obey and eventually serve the Lord ...

God Bless every marriage, far and near ... #Amen,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Saturday, December 13, 2014

A Couple's Manual

Our definition on marriage:

M - Memorable hugs, kisses and discussions ...
A - Able to overcome anything together ...
R - Respectful towards each other ...
R - Reliable when needed the most ...
I - Ignited, in the love department ...
A - Alert to each others feeling ...
G - Giving, in every aspect of the word ... 
E - Eager to forgive the unforgiveable ...
 
God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Tuesday, December 9, 2014

Use, Attentive Gestures


Fight for your marriage, but not with your fist or any heavy object. But instead, by using those kind words that flow from your heart,  along with an attentive  gestures, such as leaving love note by the coffee pot, bringing home a  box of  sweet candy and especially don't forget to bend your knees (pray) for your spouse on a daily bases. This way the lines of communication NEVER get disconnected ...
 
Colossians 3:14 (HCSB) - Above all, put on love—the perfect bond of unity.
 
While all of the above is going on, remember this ...
 
Proverbs 4:23 (NLV) -  Keep your heart pure for out of it are the important things of life.
 
 
God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Wednesday, October 29, 2014

The Boudoir

Is the place in a couple's home, where they close the door, hang on a do not disturb sign (literally speaking) and not allow the stress of the day enter their personal space. There's no talking about school, work and/or what occurred at the grocery, neither ...

It's a safe haven, where a wife & husband can unwind, reminisce about the 1st. time they set eyes on each other and in between all of the above, lots of hugs and kisses are exchanged ...

Yes and of course, the boudoir (bedroom) is that special place where a couple shares their most intimate thoughts and end the night with a whole lot of romance, too ... Don't you know that when a wife & husband make love to each other, that creates a stronger bond, generates emotions that last a lifetime and the next day life feels more sweeter than any man made candy?

One more thing, treasure those boudoir moments ...

God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Tuesday, October 28, 2014

On a Daily Bases

A real marriage is defined by the commitment the husband (man) and wife (woman) shares with one and other ... The respect that's displayed during the most difficult moments, the love also grows on a daily bases and oh yes, let's not forget that all of the above can occur in between the oddest incidents ...

#Food4Thought,

God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Sunday, October 26, 2014

Feedback

An angry spouse can set a house on fire (hypothetically speaking) ... That's why if your husband or wife is full with rage, then the next best thing for you to do is respond like this ...

Proverbs 15:1 (GW) - A gentle answer turns away rage, but a harsh word stirs up anger.

Happy a Blessed Sunday Everyone ... #Amen,

God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Friday, October 24, 2014

"Testify"

When someone dares to compare marriage to a ball and chain or that your life is over; because in their words, "you've lot your so called freedom" ... Don't be afraid to look them in the eye and share a few of those blissful experiences that you've shared with your spouse and then close your case with this bible verse ...

Proverbs 18:22 (NCV) - When a man finds a wife, he finds something good. It shows that the Lord is pleased with him.

The Lord (who's the attorney) of all those who believe in Him, will fight your battle, till the end ... #Amen,

God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Friday, October 17, 2014

Love Overcomes Quicksand

Couples tend to encounter a few rough patches during their marriage, that's why we're here to offer a few suggestions that can help you maintain a loving, respectful and determined marriage,  that refuses to swim in a quicksand of: anger and abuse; but rather embrace the following ...

1 Corinthians 13:4-7(HCSB)
4. Love is patient, love is kind. Love does not envy, is not boastful, is not conceited, 5. Does not act improperly, is not selfish, is not provoked, and does not keep a record of wrongs. 6. Love finds no joy in unrighteousness but rejoices in the truth. 7. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.



Engrave these tips in your hearts (hypothetically speaking) and your marriage will birth to positive results, in the long run ...  #HaPPyFriday,

God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Saturday, October 11, 2014

Cultivating Your Marriage


How can you maintain or uncover the foundation for a happy marriage?   

1.  Friendship cultivates the intimacy between husband and wife and it also sustains the marriage, even beyond a romantic connection.
2.  Feel free, to be opened minded when it comes to comprehending your spouses: likes, dislikes, fears, hopes and dreams.
3.  Respect for one another, while simply enjoying each other’s company is key.
4.  A couple's friendship, after a period of time, patience and loving/difficult encounters can turn into wonderful attributes that teach each other how to repair hurt feelings, as well as how to apologize and keep inevitable conflict from getting out-of control.

Indeed, if you add all of the above into your marriage, this is what can concur ...

Ecclesiastes 4:9 (NCV) - Two people are better than one, because they get more done by working together.

Savory this, while you partake of a relaxing Saturday, along side of your spouse ... #Amen,

God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Tuesday, September 30, 2014

Rebuke Those Thoughts

Dear couples, here are 7 lies that most husbands & wife's believe and as a result lead them towards a divorce ...

1.  Happiness (24/7) is the core to a wonderful marriage ...
2.  If love isn't what unifies your relationship, then divorce is the best way out (No it's not) ...  
3.  Private immorality doesn't affect the marriage ...
4.  I married the wrong person ...
5.  My spouse and I are incompatible ...
6.  Breaking the marriage covenant won’t hurt me or my children ...
7.  There’s no hope for my marriage and nothing can fix it ...
 
Now, when these negative thoughts attempt to resident in your mind and rob you of your joy, please take the time to ponder the following bible verse, with your heart instead of with the circumstances that surround you  ...
 
Ephesians 5:31 (NLT) - As the Scriptures say, “A man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and the two are united into one.”
 
#Food4Thought,
 
God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Monday, September 29, 2014

A Clearer Lens

When a couple prays together, it forms a stronger bond in their relationship and they mature(spiritually & emotionally) and the issues that once created chaos in the marriage, is seen through a clearer lens ...

Try it and you'll see? #Amen,
 
God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Friday, September 19, 2014

Friday's Catechism:

Husband's & wives, sometimes it's difficult for both of you to keep up with each other, due to your busy schedules and as result, date night is overlooked and the romance department tends to be out to lunch, too ... That's why we suggest this ...

If at your home, school or place of employment there's a computer available, why don't you send your spouse a loving and flirtatious message? By doing so, your preparing the atmosphere for some good old fashion loving ... So get ready; because passion in is in the house  ... #HaveMercy,
 
God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Thursday, September 18, 2014

It's A Metaphor

Your marriage can be a work of art; because God has placed the paint brush in your hands ... With every loving stroke you turn the brush, paint and canvas into one ...

That's a metaphor for your marriage, too ... On account of, you and your spouse are in control of the brush, the paint symbolizes what's in both your hearts are joined as one and the canvas is the journey you two love birds take hand and hand ...

Enjoy Your Friday, Mr. & Mrs. Happy Ending ...
 
God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Saturday, September 13, 2014

Sit, Divide & Conquer

Arguing about money because your spouse earns more than you isn't a mindful way to building a loving  marriage. Instead of yelling at each other, why don't you two grab a pen, paper, sit down and divide up the bills in a respectful manner. Take a pinch of this too ...

Proverbs 15:1(NLT) - A gentle answer deflects anger, but harsh words make tempers flare.

On account of, both of you live under the same roof, sleep in the same bed and hopefully both of you will continue to create more blissful memories and live happy ever after, too ...

Happy Sunday and God Bless both of you, too ...
 
God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Friday, September 12, 2014

Couples Tip #2

Here's another profound tip regarding how to reconnect as a loving husband & wife ... #Amen,
Tip #2

Try with your heart, instead of only with your ears, to pay attention to your spouse and truly express your appreciation for the positive things your partner says or does for you, no matter how small it is ...

Remember, this is an exercise that will build a loving, stronger and more healthy marriage ... Have a blissful evening along side of your hubby or wife ... #Food4Thought,
 
God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Thursday, September 4, 2014

It's Happy Friday

Another hint to a long,  loving and blessed marriage ...

Ecclesiastes 4:9 (NCV) - Two people are better than one, because they get more done by working together.

This refers to paying the bills, raising the kids, deal with difficult moments in a mindful way and growing old together, too ... Because, marriage and love doesn't have a specific age ...

God Bless every marriage, far and near ... #Amen,
 
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Tuesday, September 2, 2014

Overcoming Any Obstacle

Marriage shouldn't be based upon finances, credit scores  and/or who more popular ... Instead, a person should wed the man or woman that knows how to turn the BIGGEST tragedy into a walk in the park and holding hands with the one they love ...

Remember, together both of you can overcome any obstacle ...
 
God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Thursday, August 21, 2014

Healthy and Loving

Communication is definitely an essential ingredient in partaking of a healthy and loving marriage. Couples, now a days don't make time to check in with one another on a regular basis ...

Husbands and wife's, should keep in mind that yes you have a lot on your plates; however It's still important to set aside some "Pow Wow" with your loving spouse. Not only to talk about parenting skills, unpaid bills and/or maintaining the household.  Here's a thought, what about your marriage, the romance department and reconnecting in the other ways? 
 
Nonetheless, don't fret because here's a suggestion to ignite that fire in your love life. Try to set aside a few more minutes each day with your soul-mate discussing why you two fell in love in the first place. Little by little, you'll be igniting that fire in your spouse's heart again and this too ... 
 
 Proverbs 5:18-19 (NCV)
18.  Be happy with the wife you married when you were young. She gives you joy, as your fountain gives you water. 19  She is as lovely and graceful as a deer. Let her love always make you happy; let her love always hold you captive.

Such memories as your first unexpected kiss, date or friendly debate will come to life, just want and see ...
 
God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Sunday, August 17, 2014

Tip Number One:

We're sharing with all of you more profound tips regarding how to reconnect as a husband & wife ... #Amen,

Tip Number One:

Every morning make a conscious effort to eliminate blame, criticism, and invalidation from coming out of your mouth. If it leaks out, acknowledge it, and apologize to your partner ...

Keep in mind, that by partaking of this exercise your marriage will flourish ... Now, try this out for size and have a great Sunday, too,
 
God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

A New Door Opened

On this lovely Sunday morning, embrace the day with a smile on your face, a kind word for your spouse, a loving hug/kiss and a grateful heart ... Here's a thought, if you look back at your past, probably things weren't as great as they are now. However the Lord opened a new door for you to walk through and He also placed Mr. or Mrs. Right in your life, too ... #HaLLeLuJaH,

So take a few minutes, to rejoice and forget about whatever was said last night, on account of today is a new day ... #Sweet, Therefore, clear the air and start out fresh ... One more thing, if you don't have any plans today, why don't both of you visit a Church where the Gospel of Jesus Christ is preached and taught? We guarantee you that the rest of the day will be brighter than yesterday, more refreshed and you 2 will comprehend the true meaning of love ...

God bless your marriage ... #Amen,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Saturday, August 16, 2014

A Thought-Provoking Post

Most marriage struggle with the following areas: miscommunication,
financial disagreements. selfish attitudes and often times  irreconcilable differences. However that doesn't mean the relationship has to end in divorce ...
 
Both parties just have to take a few minutes or even a few hours to truly ponder on how to let go of the pride, give way to a forgiving heart and remember why you two first fell in love ...  By doing so, both of you will eventually see that what was annoying you so much wasn't as BIG as both of you thought ... One more question! Have you two forgot this?
 
Ephesians 5:25 (NCV) - Husbands, love your wives as Christ loved the church and gave himself for it
 
Ok now, kiss and make up ... #Amen,
 
God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Wednesday, July 30, 2014

Hints and Tips


After you to lovebirds return from your honeymoon, your marriage officially starts and with that come a few unexpected changes. It’s not to say that the honeymoon phase is over, but you’ll have to get some things situated in order to have your marriage start off on the right foot ...
 
Here's a few hints and tips:
 
  1.  Remember that you have a spouse now and your decision making process should be discussed first with your husband or wife before making a move ...
  2.   Bills, who's going to pay what and why? This is the root of disagreements in today's marriages. Thus, sit down with your wife or husband and carefully discuss this topic in a respectful tone ...
The end results will benefit the marriage; because it displays organization, responsibility and it's another form of true love ...
 
God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Tuesday, July 22, 2014

It's the Root

Marriage is a lifetime agreement, where a couple willingly shares every aspect of their life's with each other. Now, the infrastructure of this blissful union is based upon this ...

Matthew 19:5(NLV) - It says, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and his mother and will live with his wife. The two will become one.

This doesn't necessarily mean that both of you lose individuality, in other words, 2 cooks are better than one in the kitchen because both of you can add your own twist to the disk ... #Hehehe, Besides, more ideas are shared, opinion are voiced, lessons are learned and your marriage becomes stronger ... #Sweet,

 
God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Swept Under the Rug

Pretending that everything in your marriage is running smoothly when it really isn't only blocks or prolongs true healing, either personal or in the relationship ...

Possibly, you were raised to dust things under the rug, because that's all your mother and father did. Now, we're going to say this in a respectful fashion, following in your parents footsteps hasn't seem to help your marriage! Therefore, if you think that someday things will change by themselves, your only ignoring the truth ... Per contra, if you don't break that painful cycle it will haunt you for the rest of your life and you'll eave that inheritance to your kids, too. Instead, why don't you and your husband or wife implant in your family's heart this ...

James 1:19 (NCV) - My dear brothers and sisters, always be willing to listen and slow to speak. Do not become angry easily,

Marriages and families should flourish, because their both gifts from God. Can someone say ... #Amen,

God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Sunday, July 20, 2014

An Important Attribute

A loving and flourishing marriage is the greatest gift any couple(parents) can give to their children ... It's an important attribute in the field of parenting; because it creates: security, stability and self confidence in your daughter or son ...
 
God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Saturday, July 19, 2014

An Effusing Sense

When a couple is truly in sync with each other, they tend to finish each others sentences ... #Sweet, Maybe it's because they take the time to truly listen to their spouse and not talk over them ... By listening to what your wife or husband is saying with your heart, instead of only your ears, both of you can over come any obstacle ...

Saturday morning and its effusing of a sense of endless love ... Can you feel it?
 
God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Friday, July 18, 2014

Morning LoveBirds:

Sharing a loving gesture such as a kiss, huge or a kind word before your wife or husband goes off to work or school, is just the launching pad to a harmonious day ... Try it, and you'll see ... One more thing, have a super Saturday ...
 
God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Wednesday, July 16, 2014

Happy Trails

When several paths are in front of both of you and your wondering what to do? Don't waste anytime by arguing about who's decision is right or wrong, instead why don't you immediately grab each others hand and seek the Lord as fast as you can? By doing so, God will show you what to do and then the two of you can happily go off into the sunset ...

Here's a thought that can help you along the way ...

Proverbs 3:5-6 (NLT)
5. Trust in the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. 6. Seek his will in all you do, and he will show you which path to take.


#HappyTrails,
 
God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Monday, July 14, 2014

Good Morning LoveBirds

Marriage is a metaphor of a roller coaster ride ... Contemplate this? The couple experiences it's ups and downs and sometimes the journey takes a quick and unexpected turn; however the best part about this roller coaster ride we call "Marriage" is that the same person you start out with, during the bumps and detours is the same person that: comforts you during those scary turns, holds your hand tight and with love when your afraid and gets off with you, too ...
 
God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Sunday, July 13, 2014

"Bonjour"

 
On this Sunday morning you two may already have plans for later on in the day. But let's evaluate the
pro's and con's of where your going? Are you ready? Ready or not, let's assay the following:
  1.   Why are you going?
  2.   Are you doing it to please your spouse or other people?
  3.   Do you feel comfortable at that particular place?
  4.  Will you attending that location or event benefit your marriage?
We're asking you the above questions because we k...now a place that will refresh your mind, calm your heart and pave the way to a better day. It's called the House of the Lord ...

Aforetime what your about to say to your soul-mate regarding today's agenda. Or in other words, review this bible verse ...

Proverbs 18:21 (HCSB) - Life and death are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruit.

On that note, before you say NO, think about how your relationship with your spouse would get better, spirits will be uplifted and the Glory of God will blossom all over your house ... #HaLLeLuJaH,
 
God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Saturday, July 12, 2014

Give hear to this?

When you put people or things before your marriage, you have an excellent chance of becoming one more statistic on the divorce latter ... It sounds harsh, but take this analogy to heart ...

If a flower, plant or grass isn't watered on a daily bases, eventually they will wither away. Therefore, if your not giving your spouse attention, such as: complimenting them in a loving fashion, comforting them during moments of hardship and applauding their victorie...s, too. For the bible reminds it's readers this ...

Mark 10:8 (NCV) - And the two will become one body. So there are not two, but one.

Indeed, if you and your husband or wife, we're once 2 separate hearts; but after both of you said "I Do" to each other, then your 2 hearts are joined into one ... Thereupon, sow with your wife or husband love and respect so you can reap in the future the same ...  #EnjoyYourMarriage,
 
God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Friday, July 11, 2014

Dive In

What's on tonight's agenda? We don't mean to pry; but after a long, busy and even stressful week, you and your spouse might need to reconnect as a couple, and ignite that loving, sweet and endless fire by visiting romance land ... 

Don't get offended, but sometimes a husband & wife can lose themselves in raising the kids, work, household duties or other obligations, too ... For instance, why don't you set aside one day in the week so that both of you can catch up on some playful chatter, going out to dinner or bring a movie home so both of you can nibble on some popcorn, while  reminiscing about the first time you 2 set eyes on each other and kissed. This way both of you can continue to disc over new ways to grow as a wife & husband, while happily ingesting this ... 
 
Psalm 37:4 (NKJV) - Delight yourself also in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.

Enjoy your date night ...

God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Thursday, July 10, 2014

Jesus, take the Wheel

When several paths are in front of you and your uncertain of which one to embrace, take your spouse's hand, seek the Lord's presence together in prayer, study his word(the Bible) and then you 2 will eventually see what our Heavenly Father had intended for you ... Or in other words this ...

Psalm 119:105 (NLV) - Your Word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path. 

 Now, breath, relax and enjoy in your marriage ...
 
God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Relax, then Talk!

Husbands and wife's give thought to this before, during and after you sit down with your spouse in order to address a particular issue or incident ...

Proverbs 18:7 (NLV) - The mouth of a fool is what destroys him, and his lips are a trap to his soul.

Because what comes our of your mouth can be a source of blessing or curse in the relationship ... #Something2Ponder,
 
God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Thursday, July 3, 2014

Here's a Thought:

The way to ensure your husband or wife pulls their weight in the marital duties, try to be specific about what you want ... For instance, when it comes to kid cleanup, dinner prep or laundry loading, why don't you just let them do it their way?

Don't you know if you stand over him/her, servicing their every more, they can get upset and just drop everything? Therefore, try to be more patient and work together like a team ... Then, your house can continue to feel like a small heaven on earth ... Remember, the bible offers this?

Proverbs 27:17(NCV) - As iron sharpens iron, so people can improve each other.

Lord, please continue to bless all those loving couples?
 
God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Tuesday, July 1, 2014

NO, Civil Wars

When your upset with your wife or husband, try not to discuss important issues ... Because a simple conversation can turn into a civil war within minutes  ... Instead, wait a few minutes, so that you can address each other it will be with love and respect ... For this is what the bible says regarding this subject ...
 
Proverbs 15:1(NIV) - A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.
#‎JustASuggestion‬,
 
God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Monday, June 30, 2014

Marriage, 3 Definitions

We're going to share with all of you 3 unique ways to describe the word marriage ...

1. The word of God(the bible) says this about marriage ... 


Genesis 2:18(NCV) Then the Lord God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper who is right for him.

2. The Merriam-Webster dictionary defines marriage in this manner ... The relationship that exists between a husband and a wife.

3.  Finally, here's our here's our viewpoint on marriage ...
 - Memorable
  - Affectionate
R   - Real
R   - Romance
I    - Involved
G   - Giving
E   - Everlasting

All together, their key ingredients to a blissful marriage ...
 
God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Saturday, June 28, 2014

Dear Wife's & Husbands:

A good marriage allows the couple to obtain maturity, stability and growth in both of the individuals ...  Now, if only the husband or wife is expanding their mind, accomplishing more in their personal life, career or in the Ministry, then it's a one sided relationship that will eventually lead to remorse ...

Obviously, you don't want to end up in a court, fighting in front of a judge because you feel that you deserve more companion for all your grief. So, why don't sink your heart into this ...

1 Corinthians 13:4-7(NLT)
4. Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud 5. or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. 6. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. 7. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.


It may sound like a lot of work; but wouldn't you like your spouse to treat you like this? #ThinkAboutIt?

God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Friday, June 27, 2014

For ReaL

The definition of a marriage ...
 
Genesis 2:24(NLV) - For this reason a man will leave his father and his mother, and will be joined to his wife. And they will become one flesh.
 
A couple is no longer just 2 individuals that were courting each other; but they've blissful turned into 2 people that willingly joined their hearts and minds, so that together with love in their hearts, respect in their tune when they address each other and always having a forgiving spirit towards each other, so that together they can overcome any obstacle that comes their way  ...
 
God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved

Thursday, June 26, 2014

Inappropriate Behavior

If you and your spouse truly desire to enjoy your marital life, don't wash your dirty laundry out in public, for the world to see  ...  Or in other words, don't inform your siblings or friends what your husband or wife is doing behind closed doors ... Because it's none of  their business and it shows that your not partaking of what the bible says, regarding this subject ...
 
Ephesians 5:33(NLT) - So again I say, each man must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.
 
God Bless Your Marriage,
Written by Pastor Nancy Advincola (C)Copy Right 2011 All Rights Reserved